I learn all my life lessons from When Harry Met Sally.  Who likes to be held all night? That’d be super uncomfortable. 

Do you know what men think after we have sex? We think, “How long do I have to stay here and hold her before I can get up and leave? Is 30 seconds enough? All men think that. How long do you like to be held after sex? All night, right? See, that’s your problem. Somewhere between 30 seconds and all night is your problem.